Don’t get me wrong. First impressions are very important. We all have a tendency to draw a conclusion within a few seconds of a first encounter.
So it is very important to get off to a good start. But that does not eliminate the need to look a little closer and get all of the facts before jumping to a conclusion.
And it doesn’t make any difference at all whether we are talking about meeting new people, buying real estate or eating a fine meal. The first impression will only last as long as it is supported by the deeper reality!
First impressions should be enticements but not cover-ups! Because once the appetite is whetted, anything less than expected will be a disappointment!
Note: What does the photo have to do with this post? This photo was taken from the outside of an old building looking in. Since the roof collapsed, nature has taken over the inside of the old warehouse.
All content, including text, original art, photographs and images, is the exclusive property of Coweta Fayette Real Estate, Inc., and may not be used without the expressed written permission of Coweta Fayette Real Estate Better Homes and Gardens Metro Brokers, Newnan Georgia. All information is believed to be accurate but is not warranted, Copyright 2003-2009. Richard Weisser REOS, E-Pro. licensed Auctioneer. 770-827-6225.
Learn more about Coweta County and Fayette County Georgia Real Estate, and to search the entire Georgia MLS for free with no registration required. Visit CowetaFayetteRealEstate.com! Photos of the Great Smoky Mountains National Park. North Georgia Photos.
Richard, how true. If you put up a facade, either in yourself, or with a home, it will all come tumbling down at the end!
Excellent point. The first impression will get you in the door (real estate) or a first date but then what is real will begin to show itself quickly.
How much for the warehouse?
(Just kidding ...)
Hi Richard:
You are SO right!
We sometimes needs to take a second look and not allow our regular first impression conclude our judgment.
I like the notation about the building...very relevant to your post!
Richard -
My first impression was that this would be a good post. So, I read it, and my first impression turned out to be right. : )
Richard....cream rises to the top, but if it's skim milk, it will soon be known.
You are so right...First Impressions are important, but it is just as important to always be yourself, otherwise the real you will be found out eventually. And we need to always remember to keep our minds open and like Toula said, "Take a second look". Your photo is a perfect example.
Right on Richard! No sense in hiding because it all comes to a head sooner rather than later! :)
Hi Richard,
First impressions are very important but your true self will soon emerge..hopefully they will match!
Andrea...
Not that was very wise and witty at the same time! Well done, and thanks as always.
Gary...
You still must face the inspection! Yikes, and thanks!
Will...
All it needs is a new roof ... and windows ... and floors ...and systems ... but other than that it's as good as new! lol and thanks.
Toula...
I saw this photo and tried to figure out how to use it this morning. I think that I may have done OK! Thanks, my friend.
Joel..
Flattery will get you EVERYWHERE! lol and thanks.
Barbara...
That reminds me ... I need another cup of coffee ... with a little cream! ;) and thanks.
Imagine all of us type A's jumping to quick conclusions! Ha! Great post and beautiful photo Richard. You are so artistic.
We only get one chance to make a first impression ... it behooves us to make it a good one ... an HONEST one.
Hi Richard: you said: "anything less than expected will be a disappointment!" -- I always under promise and over deliver - it makes for happy customers! Good post.
:)
Richard,
The picture matches the post perfectly and thanks for the explanation because I was thinking that it was a picture looking out of a window.
Have a GREAT day my friend.
Richard,
Being yourself is the only way to be successful, authenticity shines through, insincere flattery loses its luster very quickly.
First impressions will get you started, but it's after that that thngs can get much harder. Living up to an image in someone else's mind can be very difficult!
Amy...
It is always interesting to see MLS photos that make a property look like a palace ... but in reality it's not all that! Thanks for the comment.
Jackie...
First impression is one thing, but hiding bad stuff is another. Thanks for jumping in.
Dorie...
Yes it will. Thanks my friend!
You are right. First impressions are just the beginning.
Ah, first impresseions! I think it's crucial that a seller make a great one and that the buyer try to ignor them. So often getting beyond a bad first impression will get you a wonderful place.
Richard: Like that you added an explanation of the photo here. As for first impressions, they are critically important in just about all aspects of our business. In fact, I can't think of any encounter (with fellow agents, prospects, clients, etc) where a first impression doesn't matter.
Richard: First impressions are very important, that's true enough. But so is not judging a book by it's cover. The main thing is to be yourself and honest and then there's nothing to worry about. True colors always come out sooner or later.
First impressions are always so important, but we must not be too hasty when meeting someone for the first time. I have met several people that the first impression was not so great, but when I meet them again things went well.
Richard, This is so true...will only last as long as it is supported by the deeper reality...
And it doesn't seem to matter if that deeper reality shows up a few seconds later (as in food) or a month later (as in a developing relationship). It's important to be able to put your finger out "what you are all about" , and if you pull together a good lasting first impression, you will do great!